I like Joanne's response because for me it emphasizes the role of trust in exuding the "power of togetherness." I like the old adage that "if you can't say 'no' can you really say 'yes'?" In other words, having the freedom to express yourself whether you agree or disagree with your partner is paramount to building a trusting relationship. Conflict should not be the dividing force that it often is in intimate relationships. Understandably, couples want agreement rather than disagreement. But, what if disagreements actually make us stronger simply because they require us to integrate another perspective into our own (the essence of synergy).
Like Joanne, I too applaud Rob and Celia's ability to sit with the "no". For most relationships it is important to have a solid foundation of trust so that "no" isn't threatening. In the end, as we are able to deal with disagreements we demonstrate the power of togetherness.
